
Ep. 077 – Flashback Friday | Forgiveness After Tragedy: Grief, Surrender, and Christ-Dependence with Rachel Awtrey

What if grief isn’t something you “get over,” but a sacred place where surrender and Christ-dependence are formed?
In this Flashback Friday episode, Dr. Barbara Jean Lowe Sauvé revisits a powerful conversation with Rachel Awtrey about sudden loss, survivors’ guilt, forgiveness, and healing a broken heart in Jesus. Rachel shares the story of losing her father in a tragic accident, the shock that changes life overnight, and how grief, anger, and surrender reshaped her faith.
Together, they explore Christian grief healing, forgiveness after loss, surrender to God, and Christ dependence, including how to separate “I feel guilty” from “I am guilty,” the role of lament and community, and why the Comforter (Holy Spirit) is essential in grief recovery. You’ll learn how counter-comforts deepen bondage, how meaning-making after death restores hope, and how surrender opens the door to freedom and spiritual healing.
Whether you’re walking through grief, supporting someone who is, or seeking healing from abandonment wounds, this episode offers compassion, biblical truth, and hope for the brokenhearted.
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